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I assure you - it's not snark, it's not sarcasm and it's not dismissive. There exists "the victim mentality". Don't do that.
by ArkyBeagle 10y ago
I assure you - it's not snark, it's not sarcasm and it's not dismissive. There exists "the victim mentality". Don't do that.
- nitrogen 10y agoI guess what I meant is that there are true victims who are being harassed or abused, and telling that group of people to change their mentality and perspective (without changing their circumstances) would be dismissive.
- ArkyBeagle 10y agoI mean more in the workplace, where it's possible to think of yourself as a victim, a sort of ... variation on self-pity. When I have seen this, it ... didn't help.