I logged in just to say that I think this is an excellent answer. But since I'm already here... > It's written for the serial daters who reject suitors for ult

I logged in just to say that I think this is an excellent answer. But since I'm already here... > It's written for the serial daters who reject suitors for ultimately irrelevant reasons. Do you feel that dating sites help cultivate a mindset in people that predisposes them to doing this? I do - I think many dating sites (OKCupid in particular) swamp you with irrelevant information. In my experience, it seems like people are perfectly willing to use superficial reasons to say "no" to potential partners. I'm not talking things like political views or religious beliefs; I'm talking about things like weightlifting or liking Taylor Swift. Is it the perception that these sorts of things go hand in hand with other behaviors, or fit into a preconceived notion of "what kind" of people like this sort of thing? I'm inclined to believe so. Just a mild rant. I liked this article a lot when it first came out and I'm happy to see it pop up again.