Think about what gives you control of the situation. Is it easier for other people to change or is it easier for you to change? It's always easier for you to ch

Think about what gives you control of the situation. Is it easier for other people to change or is it easier for you to change? It's always easier for you to change because you are in control of yourself. In this particular example it's easier for you to build a natural filter for behavior you dislike than it is to get people to not behave like you dislike.