It's pure exhaustion in my case. I can (and did, for a while last year) switch to Signal, but even getting my wife to care enough to bother was more work than I

It's pure exhaustion in my case. I can (and did, for a while last year) switch to Signal, but even getting my wife to care enough to bother was more work than I was willing to put in at the time, and she's the one person in the world who's most likely to listen to me. There's basically nobody else in my social circle who'd bother if she won't.