It would be super nice if you did not do this. I assure you, women who have been here a long time have good reason to have baggage. Her approach isn't productiv

It would be super nice if you did not do this. I assure you, women who have been here a long time have good reason to have baggage. Her approach isn't productive at the moment, but your comment will read to quite a lot of women as victim blaming and drive them away. This undermines the progress that some people here have work incredibly hard for.