Any question ending with '..., okay' is asking for permission. I (as a parent of 2 very easy kids) always avoid those type of permission-asking questions when

Any question ending with '..., okay' is asking for permission. I (as a parent of 2 very easy kids) always avoid those type of permission-asking questions when presenting choice. Instead I offer, not ask: "You can wear the green or the red. What do you choose?"