I hate that I'm not confident enough in myself to have children because I don't think I can be the financial provider and a mother. That's no small problem. Th

I hate that I'm not confident enough in myself to have children because I don't think I can be the financial provider and a mother. That's no small problem. The other thing is she kind of inadvertently experienced a bait-and-switch scenario. She married the man of her dreams, and then he turned into something else. I did the full time mom thing. I did not marry for money, but the conflict between motherhood and career is very real and not just in her mind.