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> It's this "do it now or feel guilty" stuff that keeps most people procrastinating or avoiding doing the task Couldn't agree more with this. I've tried many
by mrleinad 10y ago
> It's this "do it now or feel guilty" stuff that keeps most people procrastinating or avoiding doing the task
Couldn't agree more with this.
I've tried many times to build habits into my routine, only to abandon them and feel bad about it because I couldn't maintain them for a few days.
No more. Now I have them in my list, I keep them consciously present, but I won't punish myself if I don't get them done one day. Allow some leeway. If you really want it, build it paciently into your routine and if it doesn't feel right, try another way.
One example: I've been trying to stick to a healthy diet to lose some weight. I don't enjoy cooking, and much less enjoy preparing or eating salads. Tried lots of apps, lots of ways of grocery shopping, and hated it all the way.
Now I switched to calorie counting and drinking lots of water. Walking away from the desk to fill a bottle 3 or 4 times a day feels like I'm moving forward without any hassle, and I just try to eat slowly when I sit down for lunch or dinner. Water diminishes my appetite and cravings for eating out of just feeling anxiety. And if I feel like chomping down on a pizza with beer, it's ok, no big deal.
Just take it easy. Hakuna matata.
- d23 10y ago> Now I switched to calorie counting and drinking lots of water. Nice! Calorie counting was huge for me. I started using an app for tracking it, and suddenly the weight just started coming off. The quantification and gamification aspect was hugely addicting for me. For the first time I actually felt in control over my body.