I think that the key questions are not what you want or what you want to have but rather what you want to do or even more importantly what you want to accomplis

I think that the key questions are not what you want or what you want to have but rather what you want to do or even more importantly what you want to accomplish. Of course in addition UX designers do have their own demons to fight. I would call one of them as cosmic expansion of the space, that is - contrast will decrease and distance between meaningful UI elements will increase over the time.