We can agree that a lot of schools are terrible at both, and relied on for both (seriously talk to lower grades who are literally potty training some students).

We can agree that a lot of schools are terrible at both, and relied on for both (seriously talk to lower grades who are literally potty training some students). Most people don't have the option of moving to a better school district or state even, and even so, don't have time to wait for the schools to fix the issues while their kid needs an education now.