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if this is to be "expected" then why would anyone get married in California? Can you imagine the psychological cost of paying for your ex-wife (who initiated th
by wastinglife123 10y ago
if this is to be "expected" then why would anyone get married in California? Can you imagine the psychological cost of paying for your ex-wife (who initiated the divorce and planned well in advance to maximize her financial position) to enjoy herself without working?
- JustSomeNobody 10y agoYou're only focusing on the alimony part, but anyway, if the court says you owe alimony, then you do. If you later find out your ex isn't trying to find gainful employment, you can always have your lawyer try and get you out of alimony. Almost nobody should complain about paying child support[0] and 1/2 the house. Those are still responsibilities that need to be taken care of. [0] I left this open ended because there are (very rare) exceptions.