Umm... First of all when I say no offense intended, I mean it. Nobody will waste there whole life on a book which is not worth much and those books can never be

Umm... First of all when I say no offense intended, I mean it. Nobody will waste there whole life on a book which is not worth much and those books can never be best sellers like these. And I would just like to clarify on a few things here 1) I wasn't giving specific advice on marriage, as mentioned in my post I am too young to give it. Go through the post again and see its a very general one. It works with any relationship be it with your girl/boyfriend, your mother, you son talking just works I think. 2) It wasn't exactly an advise per se, it was actually an observation (may be my post was wrongly worded). 3) I really don't get how can one be wacko in believing that by talking you can ease out a relationship. 4) In no way I disregarded the life experience of anyone. I just wanted to bring to the table what many of people holding life experience had brought to my attention. I really didn't see why you had to rip my post apart. A more polite response was possible, and if this is the way you went about talking I can see why talking didn't work for you, some offense intended.