>> This isn't your problem and you can quickly tire yourself out. This is totally right. >> All you have to do to support is help your wife accept her current

>> This isn't your problem and you can quickly tire yourself out. This is totally right. >> All you have to do to support is help your wife accept her current state, and help remind her of living in the present. And this is totally wrong. I lived 4 years long together with someone having anxiety like the wife of the OP. We could literally never go out just like other joung couples because she was afraid of crowded places. Guess who did I met on the overcrowded dancing floor 3 months after breaking up? She and her friends. People sometimes only need the opportunity and free space to take the responsibility for their own conditions and to take care about their own shit. With great responsibility comes great power.