I'm so sorry for what you're going through. I can't offer any legal advice other than consulting another lawyer. Alimony is state-enforced theft and often ruins

I'm so sorry for what you're going through. I can't offer any legal advice other than consulting another lawyer. Alimony is state-enforced theft and often ruins (male) lives, so you have every right to feel upset. Whatever the outcome, please keep us updated: we care about your well-being.