All I meant is that one is usually asking the other out on dates, not the other way around. I have no idea why this precludes living an active life. Incidental

All I meant is that one is usually asking the other out on dates, not the other way around. I have no idea why this precludes living an active life. Incidentally, the pick-up artist method is all about enticing girls to go out and get you instead. And we know what all winners those guys are.