"But it is more often about the adventure..." Or, you know, the opposite. I didn't actually care if I moved or he did. The reality was that it made more sense

"But it is more often about the adventure..." Or, you know, the opposite. I didn't actually care if I moved or he did. The reality was that it made more sense for both of us if I moved, just like it made more sense for us to get married in the states. We knew each other about 5 years before I moved, generally talking daily. Naturally, if you aren't a little adventurous, you'd not consider that a viable relationship in the first place, so sure, it has a little bit of it because it must for the relationship to work.