Two words... due diligence. If it's that big a deal, you should always ask. As written, the startup sounds more like a hobby and this post more of a whine ...

Two words... due diligence. If it's that big a deal, you should always ask. As written, the startup sounds more like a hobby and this post more of a whine ... where's the plan of action for remedy? I urge to you re-evaluate the passion for your startup if you really believe.