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Jobs wasn't an asshole. People confuse directness with being an asshole. If your results suck, saying they suck isn't being an asshole. If you feel that some
by jmcdiesel 10y ago
Jobs wasn't an asshole.
People confuse directness with being an asshole. If your results suck, saying they suck isn't being an asshole. If you feel that something is horrible, sugar-coating it to make sure you don't hurt someone's feelings is unauthentic.
Here's the difference...
When someone says "your product sucks, throw it away" .. with the INTENT of causing that person to feel bad, thats being an ashhole.
If you tell them that their product sucks because you genuinely feel that way, and you're simply communicating authentically, then you're not being an asshole, you're being authentic.
Here's how you can tell the difference. The former in that example get stuck at best in middle management in low-quality companies... the latter finds themselves at the top.
- Frondo 10y agoGuess what: being an asshole is in the eye of the beholder. If someone says I'm an asshole, I don't get to tell them they're wrong. It's how they feel about me, regardless of whatever I or anyone else feels. The absolute best I could do is say that they're alone in feeling that way. Lots of folks thought Steve Jobs was an asshole. You can say "well he was just direct" but that doesn't take away how they felt about him, or what their opinions are.
- digler999 10y ago> Jobs wasn't an asshole. so the stories about him firing people on a whim weren't true ?
- drzaiusapelord 10y agoOr that famous email telling everyone not to poach "his" employees. As if he has ownership over then like a feudal lord over serfs. Oh and that email ends with not very veiled patent lawsuit threat for anyone who disagrees? And you guys complain about your wages and working hours? Maybe don't deify the guy who worked against you and your interests his whole career.