And this is why you need hobbies -- >50% of my friends are from my hobbies, with work/school/misc friends rounding out the rest. Also a possible disconnect I f

And this is why you need hobbies -- >50% of my friends are from my hobbies, with work/school/misc friends rounding out the rest. Also a possible disconnect I felt after reading: "written by a 29-year old". Sure some of these things are common phenomena, but I think it's one thing to collect the missives of Louis CK and what not and report on it, another to actually live it. Having lived through my thirties myself -- the reason why I don't make many new friends is because I'm doubling down on all the friends who are around -- and I have no mental bandwidth to keep growing more. The cost of building one deep friendship >> having pleasant company with a ton of acquaintances.