I don't know if it's 'normal', but I share the feeling. My timeframe might be shorter. It's my opinion that the more extreme manifestation of this need for fre

I don't know if it's 'normal', but I share the feeling. My timeframe might be shorter. It's my opinion that the more extreme manifestation of this need for frequent contact arises from a lack of emotional object constancy[0]. Unfortunately I've found no strategic way out so far... > This is because of my ineptness at maintaining object constancy. I always struggle to feel loved by a person unless they are in the process of demonstrating it to me - I just can't feel it unless I'm seeing it, touching it, or hearing it. Otherwise I feel totally disconnected, and potentially abandoned. [1] [0] thoughtsfromj8.com/2015/01/15/object-constancy-adult-version/ [1] bpdbunny.blogspot.com/2013/01/bpd-object-constancy-or-why-i-love.html?m=1