For counter example, I'm in my mid 30's and have more friends than ever, have a more active social life than ever, date more than ever, and generally am having

For counter example, I'm in my mid 30's and have more friends than ever, have a more active social life than ever, date more than ever, and generally am having the most social, most enjoyable decade yet. X is the decade that Y happens is a bullshit hypothesis that everyone is the same. FTS.