I think that point went rushing way over your head. The key words you missed, even though you quoted, are "one of the benefits". Not "the only benefit" or "the

I think that point went rushing way over your head. The key words you missed, even though you quoted, are "one of the benefits". Not "the only benefit" or "the most important benefit". Also this leads into some pretty important marital advice that just because you're at the top of someone's list doesn't mean you should stop trying to keep yourself there. Gotta put that effort in!