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The crazy thing is that working in a tech startup I feel like I've lost more friends than any other part or time in my life. Long hours (which have paid off an
by fowlerpower 10y ago
The crazy thing is that working in a tech startup I feel like I've lost more friends than any other part or time in my life.
Long hours (which have paid off and I have no regrets about) have caused me to become distant and not reach out to friends. At times turn down friends when they want to have causal drinks or just meet up. Now that things have calmed down a bit at work I find it challenging to just reach out to my old friends and rekindle those friendships. I try but it's not the same. I thought this was normal.
I think it's important to be vigilant and not lose our friendships. This reminds me to try harder, I think without friends and people life isn't as enjoyable.
- asdfasdfa11112 10y agoNow 34. For me, realization that group interactions were not what i like. I used to have e.g. 64 friends, i would hang out with 8 at a time. Now, I maybe have 8 friends, hang out 1-1. Can't have more and actually know them. Depth, not breadth. That is my 30s.
- hodgesrm 10y agoI had the opposite experience. My best friends are from work and I made all of them after 30. We've been hanging out now for 25 years. (Just had lunch with them on Friday.)