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I'd skip most of the whines and instead attempt to give a proper advice on nabbing a girlfriend: - get a new shirt that fits you well - go out, some bar would
by xxs 10y ago
I'd skip most of the whines and instead attempt to give a proper advice on nabbing a girlfriend:
- get a new shirt that fits you well
- go out, some bar would do
- spot a girl that you actually like, don't be shy. Look her in the eyes
- don't talk about politics and concentrate on her. Compliments are welcome, especially if not phony
- be ready for a normal debugging session of trial&error, plus starting over and rethinking your approach
- you don't need "luck", persistence would do
Other options: some of the east EU countries have higher proportions of young(er) women than men, having French accent would be extra bonus too.
- qb45 10y agoOr read The Game for case studies and some idea of possible side effects when people thought it can be reduced to few simple tips.
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- tajen 10y agoI can't do that. Partly because confidence is not me; But partly also because I'm afraid of discovering, after 15 years struggling to interest women, that the answer was that simple. Given how butthurt I am with the topic, I admit that this discovery would hurt me a lot. Do unconfident men, no matter how generous they are and how well they work, get no girl, which gives a major handicap in life?
- xxs 10y agoIf there is anything that women universally like about men it'd be 'confidence' (not overconfidence and arrogance). At least that's my experience. >> Given how butthurt I am with the topic, I admit that this discovery would hurt me a lot. << Why hurt - you'd get to have a better/happier life. You should not be dwelling on the past, "could/should/might have been" - no important, concentrate on the task at hand and what matters for you. No one has all the answers and clues, regardless how smart they are. The point is: if you don't try, you won't succeed for certain.