1. It's frowned upon for you to talk to women in coffee shop, you can't get Tinder dates and you don't like getting matched with plus sized women, so marry a wo

1. It's frowned upon for you to talk to women in coffee shop, you can't get Tinder dates and you don't like getting matched with plus sized women, so marry a woman from 'back home', I think you can find a woman who is educated also. (And please don't flinch just because they're from home - otherwise you're doing the same thing other women are doing to you) Hurry up you're hitting the wall soon. 2. Learn to pray and meditate. (The grateful kind of praying and wishing things for others, as opposed to the wishing for things for yourself kind) 3. Make a friend with a psychologist and see him or her in private off the record. Best get one who is spiritual from your own religion. Pretty simple.