I'm also a Matrix convert. Tried getting Conversations + Prosody running for me and my wife but just couldn't get it to work properly. XMPP has so many XEPs (li

I'm also a Matrix convert. Tried getting Conversations + Prosody running for me and my wife but just couldn't get it to work properly. XMPP has so many XEPs (like MAM - XEP-0313) that you need to get things working nicely and there are very few clients (Conversations only afaik) that actually support them. We also found that Conversations just wouldn't send/receive messages sometimes and that when there was no connection, it'd pretend everything was fine and dandy but not actually send. Switched to Matrix and setting up my own homeserver took about half an hour, comes with everything I need (history, "Carbons", notifications, attachments, voice/video) built in. Plus it's federated and has support for bridges so I can interact with pretty much anything else through it if I like.