Where I come from, everyone holds open the door for whoever is coming after them. Once the community you live in gets over the hump that all gestures must be ge

Where I come from, everyone holds open the door for whoever is coming after them. Once the community you live in gets over the hump that all gestures must be gendered or have hidden layers of intent, it's pretty easy to be kind for the sake of kindness itself and not worry about being perceived as chasing chivalry as a way of getting something. Keep holding the door open and imagine you are living in a post-patriarchal society?