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> * If you come to a manager who's an anti-LGBT crusader outside of work with some issues related to your same-sex marriage* Your manager is not your personal
by koenigdavidmj 10y ago
> * If you come to a manager who's an anti-LGBT crusader outside of work with some issues related to your same-sex marriage*
Your manager is not your personal grief counselor. Here is a fairly complete list of reasons why it might be discussed:
- "I need a week off for my honeymoon."
- "I am required by company policy to tell you or HR that I am dating [name] from sales."
- At the company Christmas party: "Hi, this is my spouse/partner [name]. [name], this is my manager, [name]."
- Grishnakh 10y agoExactly: in each of those situations, your virulently anti-LGBT manager or HR person will find out what you are, and then use it against you in overt or subtle ways. It's hard to hide your lifestyle at work.