Firsts of all, she doesn't know what it is by the time it's too late. Secondly, you probably don't hang out with cargo-cult-religious people too much. See One

Firsts of all, she doesn't know what it is by the time it's too late. Secondly, you probably don't hang out with cargo-cult-religious people too much. See One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest's "pecking party" for some idea.