This assertion reminds of the array of figures in our media and daily life who reflexively attribute extreme violence committed by white men to mental illness.

This assertion reminds of the array of figures in our media and daily life who reflexively attribute extreme violence committed by white men to mental illness. It's further unconvincing given your context; if you are steadfastly committed to assuming the best in others, even men who identify with the "anti-feminist" label, do you ever object to PopeHat's constant gleeful mockery of the occasional "extreme" statements from "SJWs", and feel those guys should be strictly charitable? Maybe I'm missing something, but it doesn't seem to add up to me.