I am not worried about my neighbors judging me. I am worried about governmental agencies paying me visit. It rarely matters if people are racist towards me, it

I am not worried about my neighbors judging me. I am worried about governmental agencies paying me visit. It rarely matters if people are racist towards me, it makes big difference if the cops treat me differently because of my skin color. Rules of the game (in theory and practice) as a bigger impact on parenting. I take my kids to India just so that they can travel alone, play alone, climb trees and sit on the front seats etc.