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You're saying people should censor and filter themselves at all times, to everyone, about everything? That's fucked up. Everyone needs a place to be themselves
by whamlastxmas 10y ago
You're saying people should censor and filter themselves at all times, to everyone, about everything? That's fucked up. Everyone needs a place to be themselves regardless of how often they say things that would micro-aggress people. That's why men find places to have locker room banter. Just because they are misguided by your own standards doesn't mean they deserve social solitary confinement. You should be glad they have the sense to only speak their mind in private settings rather than at the workplace or in public.
- eropple 10y agoYou don't have to censor or filter yourself. But objectification and sexism and racism aren't "being yourself" and the idea if it is ludicrous; it's just being hidebound and shitty. Why should you have a sinecure from which to be hidebound and shitty? Why not just not be hidebound and shitty? I would rather they not have the sense to "speak their mind in private settings"; I would like to know who I should not trust because of who they have decided to be.
- whamlastxmas 10y agoThis is a really narrow minded and judgmental perspective. I hope some day you encounter more diversity in your life and have more empathy towards others.