Everyone makes trade offs in their lives, ie. everyone is shitty at some (most?) things. If you have never had to make trade offs in your life, you either have

Everyone makes trade offs in their lives, ie. everyone is shitty at some (most?) things. If you have never had to make trade offs in your life, you either have zero self-awareness, so must have lived a very special life in one way or another. The corollary to that is people who're successful and have a lot of hobbies and have a six pack (the abs kind) probably aren't having time for relationship. She might be looking for a unicorn? I guess it 's just a roundabout way for me to say that the problem seems to me on her end rather than the world. Even discounted for the potential self-awareness humour bit at the end, the very first paragraph already strikes me as ... a bit off. (Quoting for reference) > I am a woman in her 30s living in an exciting and lively urban area. I am successful, intelligent, fiercely independent, hard working, beautiful (by my own standards when I’m not PMSing), and multifaceted. I have a wonderful career, worked hard to pursue and complete graduate level education, and I am sane and stable (subjectively). I play various musical instruments, have an array of interesting and active hobbies, have loyal and loving friends and family, and my charm and wit entertain myself and others to no end. I am a catch. Not to mention, severely humble.