I dont think "not getting angry" qualifies as "being kind" unless anger is the default state. kindness doesnt automatically emerge to replace a lack of negativ

I dont think "not getting angry" qualifies as "being kind" unless anger is the default state. kindness doesnt automatically emerge to replace a lack of negative outcome. "My father didnt hit me with his belt" is not kindness. "My boss didnt fire me" is not kindness.