Having been alternatingly over-praised and ripped apart by people I look up to, that's where the parents suggestion of agency comes in for me, to be able to ste

Having been alternatingly over-praised and ripped apart by people I look up to, that's where the parents suggestion of agency comes in for me, to be able to step back and look at your situation analytically, to not believe your own hype, to have a clear enough understanding of the task "her life was built for" (taken from another quote elsewhere) to question once in a while if there is any meat to the opposition. These are all components of professional/adult responsibility; and with great power etc etc. (implied is the typical transitive money==power of our society) The thrust of this ramble; I do hold her to have a great deal of personal responsibility, and differentiate very little between any participants who had sufficient knowledge and did nothing.