My only advice is to not worry too much about it. One of the first things a new dev needs to learn is how to separate critique of the wok from critique of them

My only advice is to not worry too much about it. One of the first things a new dev needs to learn is how to separate critique of the wok from critique of them as an individual. IMHO, code reviews should be clear and concise. They aren't a place to go out of your way to soften blows. I expect the same when my code is reviewed. Edit: It occurs to me the parent may have been referring to an informal review or one with the intent of mentoring. Asking questions, like the sibling mentioned is a great way. My comment is geared more towards a formal review.