You don't need to pay someone to write messages for you. As much as things like PUA and /redpill are hated on this site, I've learned a few grains of wisdom fr

You don't need to pay someone to write messages for you. As much as things like PUA and /redpill are hated on this site, I've learned a few grains of wisdom from some of the online dating threads. Advice for Guys: 1. Don't write long messages. 2. Try to keep the ratio at 1/1 or less (you vs them). 3. Go for a number / date as soon as possible. 4. If #2 or #3 fail, move on to someone else. It is a numbers game, and you are at the disadvantage as a 20 something guy. I have had decent success in my 30's using this strategy - far more than I had in my 20's, though a lot of this is due to my age and other factors, not just messaging. Honestly, if I knew at 25 what I know now, I wouldn't recommend any guys that aren't in the top 20% of attractiveness (i.e. tall, fit, good job, social skills) to bother with online dating. It is about as effective as trying to pick up random women at bars at closing time (i.e. it probably won't work, and will waste a lot of time, energy, pride, and money).