In a nutshell, it feels like they continue to exert force on the stick / yoke without ever getting to a balance point where the aircraft settles to a desired sp

In a nutshell, it feels like they continue to exert force on the stick / yoke without ever getting to a balance point where the aircraft settles to a desired speed / AoA. This applies even with various FF sticks that I have tried and discarded over the years.