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Isn't expecting that females to be more likely to listen than males a negative sexual bias?
by rguzman 17y ago
Isn't expecting that females to be more likely to listen than males a negative sexual bias?
- pyre 17y agoI think the point GP was trying to make is that this isn't necessarily a case of male professors being nice to women just because they are attracted to them (or assume that they might be attractive) and that there is a possibility of sex. (or something to that effect) It's still 'sexism' if a professor responds better to female students than male students because he perceives female students as being more receptive and grateful for the help. But not necessarily in a negative "I'm hoping to get laid" sort of way.
- smallblacksun 17y agoSo it's okay to be sexist if you aren't doing it because you're attracted to the person?
- pyre 17y agoI'm not saying anything of the sort. The implication that professors are being nice to female students to get sex implies that they are trying to abuse the power of their authority. If they are being nice because they perceive female students as more receptive to/grateful for help, it's a little more benign, no?
- smallblacksun 17y agoNot for the male students who don't get responses from the professor due to the stereotyping.
- teilo 17y agoSexism != reacting to the sexes differently. Men and women are not the same, and therefore they evoke different responses and reactions. This is not sexism.
- natrius 17y agoThat's exactly what sexism is. It's not always necessarily a bad thing.
- teilo 17y agoNo, it is not. Sexism, like racism, never has a positive or neutral connotation in any context in which I have ever heard it used. A black man is not intrinsically different than a white man. Therefore, to treat him such is racist, period. A woman is, however, intrinsically different than a man. To denigrate her because she is a women is sexism. To treat her as if she were a man and refuse to acknowledge her as a woman is, arguably, also sexism. On the contrary, merely to react differently to her, but not negatively, is not sexism.
- natrius 17y agoI find that separating connotations from the core meanings of words leads to clearer arguments. In your position, if someone calls you sexist and you deny that, it's not clear if you're denying treating someone differently based on their sex or if you just don't think you're mistreating the person. My stance is more likely to lead to a response of, "Yes, I'm being sexist, but not in a wrong way." We generally agree.