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I agree with the lady who wrote this post.

• jimmywanger 10y ago
  Way to misinterpret what I said. I said that "dude" and "guy" were asexual, not "lady".
  • ajamesm 10y ago
    I was using "lady" asexually.
    • jimmywanger 10y ago
      Just like you can use the "n-word" non-racially? The conversation was about the colloquial usage of the word dude and guy. Nothing was said about lady.
      • ajamesm 10y ago
        > "guy and dude are pretty much asexual references" and I'm using 'lady' asexually. Is this triggering you?
        • jimmywanger 10y ago
          Considering that lady is not generally accepted as an asexual term, I'm having a difficult time parsing your statement. Certain words mean certain things in certain contexts. If you want to start using "lady" as an asexual term, go for it. Be prepared for stares and weird looks when people don't know what you're talking about because it's not generally used that way, unlike 'dude and guy'. What's your point exactly?
          • ajamesm 10y ago
            You don't see my point? You're frustrated and defensive, and all I've done is address you by the wrong gender.
            • jimmywanger 10y ago
              > You're frustrated and defensive Project much? > all I've done is address you by the wrong gender. How do you know it's the wrong gender? Why are you making assumptions about my gender, without knowing if I identify as a female? My original point was the the words "dude" and "guy" have lost all gender connotations in California at least. Try to stay on point.