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Breath deeply and consider that her actions and workflows are not your own. You are separate people and are both idiosyncratic. You cannot separate the parts,
by kognate 10y ago
Breath deeply and consider that her actions and workflows are not your own. You are separate people and are both idiosyncratic. You cannot separate the parts, meaning that the annoying and beloved are both facets of the same person and that person is one you love and respect.
- glaberficken 10y agoThanks for your comment and the others as well. I understand this, sorry I seem to have phrased the question in a way that makes it seem about my frustration. But it comes from a desire to help her be more organized in these little things. To make her day to day "lighter" and have less "to-do list" anxiety. It's not about some petty OCD self absorbed motivation =) She has similar problems with her email (subscribes to too many mailing lists, and ends up feeling behind on everything), house chores (starts too many tasks at the same time and leaves them all halfway finished around the house). I guess what I'm wondering is are there any writings (book, articles) that you could recommend to a person that has these traits? thank you!