There is no one else to blame. Website owners are just people, most will never be able to understand the service and all of the implications of the configuratio

There is no one else to blame. Website owners are just people, most will never be able to understand the service and all of the implications of the configurations it provides. Cloudflare is the only one here able to do something about it, not their customers or users. I don't even know why this is a discussion. Not blaming customers and users for anything is a common sense.