125k base + some stock... 8 years experience, age 36. Bay area. Full stack, mostly java. Talking with friends it seems like salaries have exploded the past 1-2

125k base + some stock... 8 years experience, age 36. Bay area. Full stack, mostly java. Talking with friends it seems like salaries have exploded the past 1-2 years. I know of two at ~160k and recruiters are indicating 160-180k base right now. So it seems like I'm leaving a lot on the table....