I hate the current voting system. The mess of voting for a district, which votes for a state, which votes for an electoral college, which votes for a president

I hate the current voting system. The mess of voting for a district, which votes for a state, which votes for an electoral college, which votes for a president is ridiculous and leads to only a tiny number of votes actually having the chance to determine the outcome of the election. I worry that by voting, I give whoever wins a stronger appearance of a mandate. I would prefer not to give them this mandate.