I've found the dev process to be a lot easier if the development environment mirrors the production environment. So I'll spawn jails and/or vms for the database

I've found the dev process to be a lot easier if the development environment mirrors the production environment. So I'll spawn jails and/or vms for the database server, for the various bits and pieces of the apps/environment. It means less things that can be forgotten about as an app gets pushed to staging/production, and that documentation becomes easier. Also, names are usually more memorable than numbers, so it helps keep things moving while you're working on things.