Yes, last night I was all over this thread and thanks as I wasn't sure if it was too much, OK, or didn't matter in the slightest either way. Same problem IRL. :

Yes, last night I was all over this thread and thanks as I wasn't sure if it was too much, OK, or didn't matter in the slightest either way. Same problem IRL. :-) Yes, absolutely, you're right you never know until try it. I have something coming up that I 100% must go to by design, I'm responsible for it. Anxiety setting in and it's very likely if it weren't for the little trick, I'd talk myself out of going. I'd actively let people down if I don't go to this thing. Maybe that's how I should role from now on be front and center with some responsibility so I can't skip out without being a total asshole. :-) Note: people flip out with happiness when someone steps up and gets something going for other people. It's not that hard to do it either. Weird that more people don't do it.