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One thing the post doesn't cover is a defeatist attitude or a poor outlook on life. Basically, depression (regardless of the reason). Depression doesn't need
by hbt 10y ago
One thing the post doesn't cover is a defeatist attitude or a poor outlook on life.
Basically, depression (regardless of the reason).
Depression doesn't need to paralyze you. You can be productive when depressed but it is often followed by a pattern of self destructive behavior.
I used to never understand why addicts would self destroy. They would get a job, finally get their lives together and then fuck it up.
Long term goals can feel pointless when you believe that you are insignificant and your life is meaningless. What's the point of improving my life by X factor if I'm gonna be dead anyway? What's the point of building this if it will be replaced by technology Y in Z years? What's the point of discovering this if eventually someone else will? What's the point if the Universe....
That type of thinking about the far future often results in defeatism.
In reality, you wake up the next day, having made no progress, your life is the same as yesterday, it may have gotten worse if you overindulged in your addiction and now you feel like utter shit.
A positive outlook on life and a focus on improving now, on evaluating each activity as a return on investment and building a better version of yourself feels more serene than admitting defeat.
I think comfort leads to stagnation. The best work I've done is when I was in survival mode and completely dissatisfied with my life. Once I reach "normalcy", procrastination and self indulgence kick in unless I see a point behind a long term goal.
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- boodm 10y ago>Once I reach "normalcy", procrastination and self indulgence kick in unless I see a point behind a long term goal. Greeeeat point. Productivity is incredible while you're in survival mode. However, is there a time when stagnation is the goal? I often thought, "If I got rich, I'd do nothing. Sit, enjoy life, travel." But would that lead to the depression you speak of?
- hbt 10y agoPast a certain level of income, the number of things you can directly buy that will make a significant improvement in your life are extremely rare. You're back to square 1 and you need to work to improve your life. The technology, products and services simply do not exist. Unless you are willing to readjust your world view, attitude and ambition to be fine with stagnation (i.e "living life"); you will feel dissatisfied.
- mikeschmatz 10y agoYep, yep, yep. Just got "there", thanks to the original motivation. Trying to just "live life". Sucks...