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I guess I'm fortunate never to have worked with the kind of people [...] who would notice I'm upset and tell me to "smile." It's not only some demanding comman
by forgottenpass 10y ago
I guess I'm fortunate never to have worked with the kind of people [...] who would notice I'm upset and tell me to "smile."
It's not only some demanding command to modify your mood, it can be a good natured suggestion to try and keep your chin up. The person who said it to me most was my mother.
- justin66 10y ago> The person who said it to me most was my mother. Wow. If you're curious as to why some view it as a condescending thing to say to a colleague you really could start there. edit: I'm surprised by your reply... only because it seems incongruous with the statement I replied to. interesting.
- forgottenpass 10y agoedit: I'm surprised by your reply... only because it seems incongruous with the statement I replied to. interesting. Just because people were well-intentioned didn't make it any less infuriating. I've gotten it in the "cheer up" sense and the "be more presentable" sense and the "comply with norms" sense. Not a huge difference in how it feels, non family ones are a bit easier though.