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"After a time, you may find that having is not so pleasing a thing after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but is often true.” -- Spock https://youtu.be/-wt

"After a time, you may find that having is not so pleasing a thing after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but is often true.” -- Spock https://youtu.be/-wtYGZt7aI4 https://youtu.be/-wtYGZt7aI4

encoderer 10y ago
> Expectation is the purest, most reliable form of pleasure - Flaubert (From memory, paraphrasing)
- Jun8 10y ago
  Your memory is good but I think that was the form given in a Dawson's Creek episode (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0555133/quotes http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0555133/quotes). The one that Goodreads and other sites attribute to Flaubert is: "Pleasure is found first in anticipation, later in memory." I couldn't find a source for this but I think rather than Flaubert this is from Julian Barnes's book Flaubert's Parrot, which has: “Remember the botched brothel-visit in L’Education sentimentale and remember its lesson. Do not participate: happiness lies in the imagination, not the act. Pleasure is found first in anticipation, later in memory.” (https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/1414912-flaubert-s-parrot https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/1414912-flaubert-s-par...). This quote does not appear in the full text of that book, though (https://archive.org/stream/sentimentaleduca00flauiala/sentimentaleduca00flauiala_djvu.txt https://archive.org/stream/sentimentaleduca00flauiala/sentim...). I totally agree with the sentiment expressed, of course. The real lover not being as beautiful or desirable as the imagined version is a common motif esp. in Middle Eastern literature.
  - encoderer 10y ago
    bahaha. I don't remember the show well but I was a teenager in the 90s and definitely watched it. I do, however, remember selectively reading the book later in school so I must have mis-appropriated that memory.
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"After a time, you may find that having is not so pleasing a thing after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but is often true.” -- Spock https://youtu.be/-wt

by manaskarekar 10y ago

"After a time, you may find that having is not so pleasing a thing after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but is often true.” -- Spock https://youtu.be/-wtYGZt7aI4 https://youtu.be/-wtYGZt7aI4

encoderer 10y ago
> Expectation is the purest, most reliable form of pleasure - Flaubert (From memory, paraphrasing)
- Jun8 10y ago
  Your memory is good but I think that was the form given in a Dawson's Creek episode (http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0555133/quotes http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0555133/quotes). The one that Goodreads and other sites attribute to Flaubert is: "Pleasure is found first in anticipation, later in memory." I couldn't find a source for this but I think rather than Flaubert this is from Julian Barnes's book Flaubert's Parrot, which has: “Remember the botched brothel-visit in L’Education sentimentale and remember its lesson. Do not participate: happiness lies in the imagination, not the act. Pleasure is found first in anticipation, later in memory.” (https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/1414912-flaubert-s-parrot https://www.goodreads.com/work/quotes/1414912-flaubert-s-par...). This quote does not appear in the full text of that book, though (https://archive.org/stream/sentimentaleduca00flauiala/sentimentaleduca00flauiala_djvu.txt https://archive.org/stream/sentimentaleduca00flauiala/sentim...). I totally agree with the sentiment expressed, of course. The real lover not being as beautiful or desirable as the imagined version is a common motif esp. in Middle Eastern literature.
  - encoderer 10y ago
    bahaha. I don't remember the show well but I was a teenager in the 90s and definitely watched it. I do, however, remember selectively reading the book later in school so I must have mis-appropriated that memory.
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