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As an adult, it is far easier to avoid your tormentors. Adults tend to be better at measuring risk as well: picking a fight with me, for example, would mean vo
by Retra 10y ago
As an adult, it is far easier to avoid your tormentors.
Adults tend to be better at measuring risk as well: picking a fight with me, for example, would mean voluntarily engaging in a physical confrontation with a fully grown, professionally trained combatant who happens to be a member of the most violent species ever known to exist in the universe. If you attack me, one of us will become a murderer. There's little reason to go down that road, and I'll make sure you know it.
However, children don't really think, nor are they permitted to follow through on that kind of threat. And they tend to care more about what they are permitted to do.
- mikeash 10y agoYes, exactly. Everybody saying "but you're not supposed to resist muggers" is missing the point. If you get mugged by the same person 47 times in a row, you're not going to keep getting that advice. A one-off incident at school which goes unpunished is troubling but understandable. It's the repeated long-term bullying that gets nothing but shrugs and "ignore it and it'll go away" that is completely nuts.